"What! Me Worry?"
Ballynahinch, Northern Ireland
August 3, 1983
Dear Folks,
There is absolutely no doubt in my mind from which of my ancestors I inherited my trait of not worrying about the future. Unquestionably it was from my Irish forebears.
I've walked over one hundred miles through the Irish countryside the past week--from Dublin to Ballynahinch, about fifteen miles south of Belfast--and I've yet to meet any likely candidates for an ulcer. Indeed, never have I experienced so much song and laughter and good food and, yes, brew, as I have in my all-too-short hike through the green hills and valleys of this tiny nation.
Surely the national slogan of the 4.5 million Irish who still remain on this hugely agricultural island must be something similar to, "What! Me Worry?" Beset by enough problems to make any populace moan and groan, the Irish have a seemingly bottomless zest for the pleasures of life.
"Worry is the interest you pay for tomorrow's troubles," Caitlin Chairbre, a fiesty mother of six and a pub owner in Drogheda, told me one evening. "In Ireland we live from day to day, still believing strongly that everything in good time will be righted by God, or fate, or whatever.
"Aye, it is our faith that's always made us different, made us strong in spite of all the troubles and peoples who's sought to rule us."
She handed me another dark and foamy pint of Guinness ale that someone in the packed pub had bought for me and continued, "'Drink and be merry today, for tomorrow may not come!'--That's what the average working man here will tell you." Then, with a twinkle in her hazel eyes, she added, "Which makes owning a pub all the much better, you understand."
Caitlin (Irish for Cathleen) so well epitomized the warmth I was to find everywhere in Ireland, be it in the Catholic south or in the Protestant north. Somehow she had heard of my walking north from Dublin, and she had sent her son, Fiacre, out on the road between Dublin and Drogheda to search for me. When he'd found me, he'd left his car beside the roadway and walked beside me the last two miles into the ancient town on the banks of the Boyne River.
Then for the next two days I was treated to several sumptuous Irish dinners of locally caught salmon, potatoes, oxen tongue, home-grown peas and tomatoes, freshly-baked bread, gooseberry and custurd desserts, and gallons upon gallons of hot tea with milk and sugar. In between the meals and the evening songfests in the pub, we were to take trips to the nearby Irish Sea castles in the surrounding grassy hills.
It was like everything I'd ever seen in picture books and movies: tightly-curved country lanes, tall and endless hedges, straw-thatched farmhouses, and lush pastures dotted with what must be the world's most contented-looking dairy cows and sheep.
Even though the car we were packed into--her wildly red-haired daughter Roisin's tiny black Citroen Charleston--was no bigger than a bathtub, the lanes we sped along were barely wide enough for other autos to pass. It certainly made for a lot of wide-eyed gasps on my part, as we darted into each blind curve. The Irish drive as hard and furiously as they drink their stout.
But then one must remember that in Ireland life is to be lived, and that worrying is for those who've gone and died before they had the chance to make ammends. Best to share good times with good company and part with the words: "Zo N-eiri an bozair leaz." May the road rise with you.
Steven

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Hey Steven,
Hope all is well with you. John, me and the boys wish you well.
Be safe.
Rachel
Posted by: Rachel | November 3, 2005 8:04 PM
Dear Steven,
Sorry i haven't written in a while! I'm in Middle School now (( So exciting)) and i get SO MUCH homework! I hope everything's good with you! Carpe Diem! I like that line. Bye! C-ya later!
Love,
Lynne
Posted by: Lynne | November 5, 2005 12:16 PM
Dear Lynne,
So good to red that you are enjoying middle school. Be sure to make the most of it. Now is a good time in your life to start figuring out what path you want your life to take. What excites you the most and what would you like most to do with all your talents and energies?
Steven Newman
Posted by: Steven Newman | November 6, 2005 9:53 PM
Dear Rachel,
So good to hear from you. It's been a long time. I think you'd agree that the years pass by much too quickly. Seems like just yesterday. I am happy that you are well. All is good here, too, on Worldwalker Hill. The autumn has been picture perfect and makes me feel so alive and happy. The colors are so very spectacular and the air so fresh!
Steven Newman
Posted by: Steven Newman | November 6, 2005 9:59 PM
Dear Steven,
I am making the most of it ^^ I'm in Mathcounts, Power of the Pen, and the Baton team. I am still taking violin and piano too! Also, I have joined Chinese school. All of this stuff is very tiring, but it's really worth it! I would REALLY want to be a doctor, I am determined to get there too! I'm sure I have the potential. Some day, when I become a doctor (( a famous one )) , I'll come visit you! I have to do homework now! C-ya later, hope to hear from you soon.
Love,
Lynne
Posted by: Lynne | November 13, 2005 11:14 AM
Not sure if you were being ironic there but the phrase is 'Go n-eiri ar an bothar leat' .... Maybe too much of ze Guinness .... The irish language only has 18 letters. There is no J K Q V W X Y or Z
Posted by: Eanna | August 29, 2006 2:40 PM
Eanna,
Thank you for the correction in my Gaelic usage. I was always uncertain that I had written that popular Irish phrase in its correct form. Now I won't be so nervous when someone from Ireland reads this dispatch. Hope all is well in your part of the world. I understand that Ireland is being flooded with hundreds of thousands of job seekers from all over Europe these days. What a dramatic switch from the past several hundred years! I sure hope Ireland doesn't lose its "Irishness." Also, love your name.
Steven Newman
Posted by: Steven Newman | August 29, 2006 6:07 PM